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December 10, 2012

Dear Abby: Girl knows truth about Santa, but Mom refuses to fess up

Dear Abby: I have a 12-year-old daughter who keeps telling me she knows Santa isn’t real. “Angela” is an only child, so we don’t have a younger child to worry about carrying on the tradition.

I keep telling her that I believe, and as long as she believes, Santa will come. Angela went so far this year to tell me that she won’t write a letter to Santa to prove her point. I guess I have a problem admitting to my daughter that her father and I haven’t been truthful all these years. I would love some advice on how to handle this.

I Believe, in Navarre, Fla.

Dear I Believe: The jig is up. You’re no longer fooling your daughter. By not leveling with her, the message you have been sending is that if she wants straight answers, she will have to go elsewhere to find them. Sit Angela down and explain that the spirit of Santa is embodied by loving parents who want their children to experience the wonder of the holiday, as well as the pleasures it brings.

P.S. And if you haven’t done so already, recant the story you probably told her about the stork.

Dear Abby: I have been divorced for three years. I have started seeing a truck driver I’ll call Ted. His job keeps him away from me a lot of the time. I’m used to being by myself, so it doesn’t bother me that much. Ted calls and texts me all day, so the communication is there.

My family is telling me it will never work because I need someone with me in the evenings — like my ex was. I say it WILL work because I’m used to being by myself now. Ted and I have a lot in common.

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