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June 14, 2014

Dear Abby: Two’s a crowd in bedroom shared by teenage sisters

Dear Abby: I’m a 14-year-old girl, and I need my own bedroom. Ever since I was born, I have shared a room with my 17-year-old sister. Maybe it was OK when we were younger, but now it is impossible. It’s crowded and annoying. I have no privacy, and I can’t decorate it how I want.

What makes this worse is that we have an extra room. My parents refuse to consider it and won’t give me a reason. It has gotten so bad I have moved into a closet. Every time I walk into my room, I get a headache. I never hang out there anymore. Please help.

In The Closet In N.Y.

Dear In The Closet: Your parents may be hoping you can come to a truce with your sister without having to sacrifice their guest room. If you feel your bedroom is crowded, it must be the same for her. If a truce isn’t possible, then you will have to continue hanging out in other parts of the house.

Although it may be inconvenient for you, your sister can’t help that she exists, and the sooner you accept it, the sooner your headache will lessen. As to redecorating the bedroom to suit your taste, be patient a while longer. At 17, your sister should be nearly out of high school. In another year, she’ll be 18, and the room will be all yours if she plans on going to college or finding a job, roommates and independence.

P.S. At that point, don’t be surprised if you miss her.

Dear Abby: A friend I have known for about 10 years messaged me again tonight saying she was going to commit suicide. I tried to get her to go to a hospital, but she refused. When I told her I was going to contact the police, she backed down a bit. This has become an almost-nightly occurrence.

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