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November 13, 2012

Dear Abby: Dog pays the price for owner’s inattention behind the wheel

:Dear Abby: I want to share my experience with being a distracted driver. One gorgeous, sunny day a few months ago, I happened to glance down at my iPad, and the next thing I knew, I had hit the car in front of me. The air bags engaged and hit me and my golden retriever, who was in the front seat with me. He was so freaked out, he jumped out the window into oncoming traffic. I chased him but lost him as he darted through traffic on the busy streets.

Fortunately, a couple found him and brought him to a vet, who scanned his chip. I got him back, and it is a gift from heaven, but he was severely injured. With time, he will make a full recovery, but my stupid mistake hurt my most cherished companion. I can’t forgive myself. From now on, those devices go in the trunk.

Reformed Distracted Driver

Dear Reformed: That’s a start. And in the future, your cherished companion should ride in the BACK seat with the windows closed and wearing a restraint so that in the event of another traffic problem, he won’t be reinjured. Because you are in communication with your veterinarian, ask him or her what type is recommended.

Dear Abby: I am a mature, adult woman in my 40s who has never had a good relationship with my mother. Candidly, she is a mean person who has left a lot of hurt feelings in her wake. It makes being close to her impossible. Our entire family feels the way I do about her, including her only surviving sister.

I will be remarrying soon. Although I feel that inviting my mother to my wedding is the right thing to do, it could mean potentially inviting disaster literally. I’m having trouble coming to terms with this decision and would love your input.

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