:Needs Advice in Oregon
:Dear Needs Advice: Undercover cops are older than 17. Because you say this man was “fine” with seeing you, but now is pulling away, it is possible that he is trying to let you down without hurting your feelings. You are not yet out of high school, and this man is far ahead of you in life experience. Rather than try to talk him into having a sexual relationship with you, you would be much better off finding someone your own age.
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