Today is the holiday meant to honor two of our most beloved, and perhaps most misunderstood, American presidents.
Presidents Day honors our first president, George Washington, and our 16th president, Abraham Lincoln. As schoolchildren, we learned to regard them as stoic figures of greatness. They accomplished great deeds for the nation. They lived in times that are foreign to our modern lives. Their cold, white marble statues are everywhere, staring at us blankly. They are important but distant to us.
And that’s where these men are misunderstood.
Both assumed power at critical points in our nation’s history, and both made decisions that steered our nation on the right course. They were great leaders.
But they were also men of humor, wisdom, intuition and human frailty. They were more like us than we tend to perceive.
The 2012 film “Lincoln” did a commendable job portraying the man behind the marble — his wit, his personal and family struggles, his frustrations and occasional foibles. As in the book it was based on, Doris Kearns Goodwin’s “Team of Rivals,” the film showed viewers a side of Lincoln that had been wiped away by simplistic history lessons.
Lincoln is best known for his Civil War-related speeches. He was also a man of unusual wisdom. Here are a few of his observations of human nature that are worth noting:
“It has been my experience that folks who have no vices have very few virtues.”
“It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to open one’s mouth and remove all doubt.”
“People are just about as happy as they make up their minds to be.”
“And in the end, it’s not the years in your life that count. It’s the life in your years.”
“When the conduct of men is designed to be influenced, persuasion — kind, unassuming persuasion — should ever be adopted. It is an old and a true maxim, that a drop of honey catches more flies than a gallon of gall.”